Fellas... here are some TIPS for ya.

. Express your feelings. Don’t just assume we know everything!
. We aren’t asking for you to spill your heart, but some information about what’s going on in that head of yours, is nice every once in a while.

. Don’t ever ignore us/leave us hanging. Chances are, we’ve been thinking about you all the time
. If you just want to be friends, make it obvious. If you want to be more, let us know.
. Don’t lead us on, and then suddenly drop us. There’s nothing more frustrating/confusing.
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. We’re really sensitive. The smallest thing to you could be the biggest thing to us.
. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
. Girls gossip, and we know everything. Whatever you do, we WILL find out.
. Girls tell their friends everything. Meaning our friends know everything about you.
. When you ask us what’s wrong, and we respond with “Nothing,” you have either made us extremely pissed off, or very upset- and it’s your job to fix it.
. If you know we’re mad, try and see what’s wrong, and don’t give up on us.

. There are some things you do that you should just keep to yourself, that we don’t want to hear/know about.
. We are not PMS-ing 24/7, so stop saying it.

. Don’t worry if your friends think it’s “gay.” It’s not.
. Compliments make us feel better about ourselves. Maybe you should give us them more often.
. We love to take pictures, and if we ask to take one with you, be flattered.

. If you do something to hurt us, we won’t forget about it, even if we do end up forgiving you.
. Think before you speak!
. Believe us, no girl wants to just be “friends with benefits,” even if you think she does.
. Don’t underestimate us. We will strike back, no matter what.

. Remember: actions speak louder than words!
. It’s the thought that counts! Remember that.

. Don’t forget important dates.
. “I was drunk,” is no excuse for any obnoxious behavior.
. We’re allowed to spend as long as we want getting ready. Don’t complain, just be happy that we tried to look good for you.
. Do not start with us. You will not win.
. Laugh at our jokes, we think they’re funny.
. Don’t act differently around us then you would when you’re with your friends.
. Don’t embarrass us in front of our friends by your behavior.
. Be romantic sometimes.
. If you want to keep a girl, the key is HONESTY.
. If you want us to want to hang out with you again and again, try not canceling on us every time.

. Here’s an idea: hold our hand!
. We like when you notice the little things, like: when we change things, the color of our eyes, our favorite movie or color, things like that.

. We hate when you talk to us ALL the time over the computer, but then wont even look at us in person.

. If we’re cold, it’s your job to lend us your jacket or find some way to make us warmer.
. Don’t mess up our hair! Touching it is sometimes cute, but in no way/shape/or form is it cute when you obnoxiously mess it up.
. DO NOT tell all your friends about your relationship with us sexually. Just don’t.
. If you make us cry, you damn well better find some way to fix it.
. Instead of HOTT, we much rather prefer BEAUTIFUL. Pretty is acceptable too.
. We love it when you hug us, especially from behind.

Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
Im not cute or built suit for a fashion model's size.
But when I start to tell them,
they think I am telling them lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms,
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lip.
I am a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
Thats me.

I walk into a room,
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees,
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing of my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally

Phenomenal woman,
Thats me.

Men themselves have wondered,
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch,
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them,
They say they still can't see
I say,
It's the arch of my back
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style,
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing,
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
Its the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
The palm of my hand,
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman.
That's me.

All I Wanted...

All I want is you. It’s hard to go to bed every night knowing that we are not together and that you want nothing to do with me. I hate hearing shit from your bestfriend and not from you. Maybe you have had four girls spend the night, maybe not. But I want to hear it from you. I fear for being blocked out of your life forever and replaced or forgotten. I just want another chance. I don’t want to be known as your booty but I enjoy the time that we spend together. I never know when we will talk again or what is going to happen next week to next month. All I want is you.